To borrow Wikipedia's definition, "BDSM is a type of roleplay or lifestyle choice between two or more individuals who use their experiences of pain and power to create sexual tension, pleasure, and release."

Additionally, BDSM is a conjuction of words that enclose everything that this world is all about, and it breaks down as follows:

Bondage: The act of physically restraining a cosenting partner with the use of ropes, chains or other objects used to limit one's own mobility for the sake of sexual pleasure, leaving the person completely vulnerable to the Master or Mistress.

Discipline: The use of rules and punishment to control overt behavior.

Submission: The willingness that a sub has to listen and obey whatever the Master/Mistress commands.

Sadism: The act of greatly enjoying one's pain and suffering, wether it may be physical or psychological.

Masochism: The act of enjoying pain, wether it may be self inflicted or inflicted by someone else.

But remember, and this is VERY important, that everything in BDSM must be "Safe, Sane, and Consensual" at all times and without exception.

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